Courage.. Yes, it seems easy to understand what it is, but often in real life, many people fail to take out their courage, to face difficulties/challenges. Well, life is like a roller coaster, there are ups and downs. When you're climbing high, you'll feel as if the entire world is under controlled, you feel safe, and have more confident in whatever tasks that you do. But when you suddenly plunge from the peak to the bottom, the real challenges finally arise. That's the time, the moment, where you feel that you're at your weakest point.
I could say that most people, at that point of time, mentally and emotionally are unstable. Consumed by your own fear of losing everything that you have/ feeling ashamed/ felt that every passerby sees you as a joker etc etc. All these negative thoughts/feelings will tends to take over ones mind, and eventually leads a person to feel as if it's the end of his/her world.
Well, my thought on this kind of situation is, a person, whether he/she is truely strong mentally and emotionally, is judged by the period taken for the recovery process. How fast he/she could get over the sad/self-blaming period, and bounce back into fighting to change their life. People whom stands up on their on feet in a shortest period of time, and willing to accept critics and challenges from bottom up all over again, are those that having and truly understands what is the meaning of COURAGE.
This word lets me think over and over again, which I thought I might as well blog and share my voice to the world. So what do you readers think?
Ahh~ I could say that, my previous relationship allows me to experience the downside of it, during the breakup. Yes, I don't deny that I've always thought this relationship will last forever, although it didn't went as I wished it would, but I never regretted it for happening.. The feeling of being the person, who wants a breakup, and the feeling to be the person that wanted the relationship to continue, is very different indeed. Weeks has passed and the clock still ticking away, it's funny to still be able to see things with his shadows. However, I'm slowly releasing my tightly closed fist, that has always been clinging onto this relationship.....
I hope for the best for both of us, and to the rest of the world. No matter what hardship that you're going through, family and friends, will always be the best refuge. Be positive, and get back up fighting~!!
