So.. I'm just curious about this question.. Directed to all guys, do you mind that if your partner (wife or gf) is having a better achievements than you do??
haha.. it's just random question. Because people always say that a lady's heart is very hard to catch, well i'll say that a guy's mind is very hard to guess. LOL~ don't you agree?
So guys, what if your partner is doing better than you are, will you feel pressured? will you feel uncomfortable? or are you ok with it and be happy for her? hmmm.. I know that this "guy-ego" thingy usually kicks in and causes arguments in a relationship. Which is also in many occations, become the reason for a guy to call for breakup. For age between 20-30, ladies with aspiration will tend to push themselves harder than ever, before they finally decided to start a family. That's because in natural, all ladies are family-oriented. And yes, ladies too are ambitious, but the top priority of all things will always be family. Many ladies find it very tough to achieve their dreams.
So ladies with dreams, will try their best to progress as many milestone as possible, before settling down with a guy who she'll be able to spend her life with. It's sort of like a self-accomplishment.. Adventurous.. Satisfying.. And able to give pleasure to one that she'll be able to "measure" her capability. Well, i'm a girl like that. I'll keep moving forward, won't stop and wait, because time is ticking every second. Lost time can never be recovered. This.. is a fact.
And guys, stop being an idiot by stopping / slowing a lady in reaching her goals. Both sexes, have equal rights in fighting for their dreams in life! Be optimistic even if your other half is doing better than you, take this as an encouragement to chase up or move even further than she does. If she's what mattered to you the most, never give up, try harder. And ladies, if a guy that you like, tried to stop you, you're definitely better off without him. As he doesn't see what opportunities lies within this relationship, how both can encourage each other to strive to success together~ ^^
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ReplyDeleteI think it's not just a guy's mind, but for me, a girl's mind is really hard to guess too! Something which I tried to but still have a hard time with it. Reading your post did give me some clues, however.
Good luck in everything you do!
Cheers! ;D
haha~ thx! hopefully my post can help you figure out a girl's mind is thinking about then! hehe.. but it's bias to my thinking though.. =p
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